Are you tired of performing your way through life—smiling when you want to scream, agreeing when you want to walk away, and quietly contorting yourself to fit someone else’s script? You’re not alone. Most people are living what we call a borrowed life—a carefully curated persona designed to win approval, avoid rejection, and survive the noise. But here’s the truth: that version of you is a mask, not your identity. And it’s draining the life out of you.
In this powerful expert talk, Paul and Lyn unpack what it really means to stop performing, drop the BS identity you never consciously chose, and reconnect with the person you were always meant to be. This isn’t about self-improvement. It’s self-rescue. It’s liberation. It’s alignment over approval, truth over performance.
If you’ve ever felt the quiet ache of disconnection, the burnout of trying to be “good enough,” or the subtle panic of not knowing who you are anymore—this video will hit deep. It’s your call to stop fixing what isn’t broken and start unearthing who’s been buried beneath the roles all along.
